EDUCATION OF KAMASUTRA FOR GIRLS
Maharshi Vatsayan says that married women, wife
of the brother, sister of the mother, old maid and elder sister
are all the teachers to teach young girls in Kamasutra.
In Mahabharat, the king of Virat had appointed Vrihannala (Arjun
in eunuch guise) to teach his daughter Uttara in the arts related
to Kamasutra. But now a day feeling of motherhood is diminishing
in the society. Bearing top priority of so called modern women.
Sexual desires and their fulfillment come first for such so called
modern women. How much will they be concerned about the future of
their daughters, no one can say that. Hence, knowledge of
Kamasutra is a must for women also. Only then they can teach their
daughters to differentiate between constructive and destructive
carnal desires. Such ability will surely save the young girls from
the bad company. In the modern society, deadly sexual diseases
like AIDS are lurking at every nook and corner. A reserved
behaviour of young girls will certainly act as a shield against
these hard to cure diseases.
TRAINING OF GIRLS IN KAMASUTRA
To teach the young girl the practical aspect of Kamasutra, total
privacy in the first requisite. All the girls-irrespective of
their intelligence level must at least learn the practical aspect
of Kamasutra. There are in all, sixty-four different arts like
singing, dancing, playing instruments etc. that comprise Kamasutra.
Experienced maids, married friends, mothers, young sister etc. can
be entrusted with the job of training young girls in Kamasutra.
NEED OF KAMASUTRA FOR WOMEN
It is imperative for a woman to gain substantial knowledge about
Kamasutra before marriage. During childhood years a woman body is
sufficiently flexible to learn the postures and all other arts
related to Kamasutra. But in young age, they become too shy to
respond to these postures. After marriage they are dependent on
their husband, who expect that their wives would have enough
training of Kamasutra. Because of their low level of receptivity,
teaching a discipline to woman is forbidden. Hence it is useless
to teach the woman about subtleties of Kamasutra. Only the
practical aspect of it should be taught to them.
PROSTITUTES & WIDOWS
Kamasutra shows no objection over the company of prostitutes, nor
puts only restrictions on this tendency. Many well to-do people
seek the company of prostitutes. Kamasutra puts them both in the
category of Nayika, pretty, young woman who is the centre of every
one's attraction. But excess of everything is bad. Thanks to the
company of prostitutes, even the wealthiest people lose their
property; and even the greatest braves fall prey to inertia. In
the present age, when the danger of deadly AIDS looms large,
ignorant people seek the company of prostitutes and acquire host
of deadly diseases. These people, in turn, transfer these diseases
to their wives. And if the wife conceives the children are sure to
have AIDS since birth. As all of us know, AIDS is an incurable
disease, knowledge of Kamasutra may be sure way to combat this
AVOID UNRELATED WOMEN
By unrelated women, it means here women other than your wife.
Reproduction and hence continuation of the family is the basic
object of copulation. Copulation with just any woman may give you
a son (or an offspring). But the offspring you get by copulating
with your wife will be truly yours. He or she will bear your name
and receive respect and acceptance in the society. On the other
hand, offspring produced through extramarital affair will bear the
name of some one's else. Scriptures abound in the examples of such
people, who had blind desire for unrelated women' and the fate
they met ultimately. True gentlemen are not allured by the beauty
of unrelated women. Desire for unrelated women is thus a social
evil, which everyone must fight against. Maharshi had cited the
examples of Keechaka and Ravana to show the faults of unjust
desires for unrelated women.
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